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Turquoise Traipsing: Flippantly using the word stalk angers me to no end. →

tierracita:

Trigger warning: Stalking, rape culture

“Sorry for stalking your blog,” “find out how many people stalk your profile,” “I’ve been stalking so and so for awhile before following them” “I am such an uber stalker for ____” “She totally stalked me from the bedroom to the bathroom, damn cat” and…

Despite having a brief and non violent incident with a stalker myself I will admit I’ve def been guilty of using “stalk” colloquially without thinking about how it may be triggering to other people who had much more difficulty ending their stalking.

Cory, How do you feel about lurk …or peruse?

— 3 months ago with 40 notes
  1. peayeahknow reblogged this from theoceanandthesky
  2. impromptuonedykedanceparty reblogged this from nerdbyrd
  3. vampirefruitfly reblogged this from madamethursday and added:
    Something to think about for sure.
  4. nerdbyrd reblogged this from cupcakesnotbombs
  5. tierracita reblogged this from crashntumble and added:
    I think that’s the case for most people, it’s just so colloquial that it’s hard to reconceptualize how...
  6. crashntumble reblogged this from tierracita and added:
    Despite having a brief...non violent incident with a...using...
  7. green-street-politics reblogged this from journalmoore and added:
    I have been stalked by people before, and honestly the scariest was the one who, in his first words to me, offered to...
  8. journalmoore reblogged this from cupcakesnotbombs
  9. theoceanandthesky reblogged this from madamethursday
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  11. cupcakesnotbombs reblogged this from zipibree and added:
    friendly reminder: stalking is an actual thing. it’s not looking at 6 of your facebook friend’s photos. it’s not a joke....
  12. soymmmilk reblogged this from zipibree
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  14. zipibree reblogged this from darkcloudtherainbowwarrior
  15. fullyanimatedlifetree reblogged this from barefootrunaway and added:
    Yes, this is important. When I hear people say this, I think “this person doesn’t understand what this word actually...
  16. dulce-sonrisas reblogged this from darkcloudtherainbowwarrior
  17. barefootrunaway reblogged this from darkcloudtherainbowwarrior and added:
    Ah, this is important.
  18. elytra said: I absolutely agree Cory. Sorry you had to put up with that. Last year 2 students in a WGS class I was in used that word flippantly and I was blown away that they didn’t know better!
  19. darkcloudtherainbowwarrior reblogged this from tierracita and added:
    I’m definitely guilty...use it from now on. Now...find an...
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